Sunday, August 2, 2015

India is 62 years young


India is 62 years young

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Why is the media here so negative?


Why is the media here so negative?
Why are we in India so embarrassed to recognize our own strengths, our achievements?
We are such a great nation. We have so many amazing success stories but we refuse to acknowledge them. Why?
We are the first in milk production.
We are number one in Remote sensing satellites.
We are the second largest producer of wheat.
We are the second largest producer of rice.
Look at Dr. Sudarshan , he has transferred the tribal village into a self-sustaining, self-driving unit. There are millions of such achievements but our media is only obsessed in the bad news and failures and disasters.
I was in Tel Aviv once and I was reading the Israeli newspaper. It was the day after a lot of attacks and bombardments and deaths had taken place. The Hamas had struck. But the front page of the newspaper had the picture of a Jewish gentleman who in five years had transformed his desert into an orchid and a granary. It was this inspiring picture that everyone woke up to. The gory details of killings, bombardments, deaths, were inside in the newspaper, buried among other news.












In India we only read about death, sickness, terrorism, crime.. Why are we so NEGATIVE? Another question: Why are we, as a nation so obsessed with foreign things? We want foreign T.Vs, we want foreign shirts. We want foreign technology.

Why this obsession with everything imported. Do we not realize that self-respect comes with self-reliance? I was in Hyderabad giving this lecture, when a 14 year old girl asked me for my autograph. I asked her what her goal in life is. She replied: I want to live in a developed India . For her, you and I will have to build this developed India . You must proclaim. India is not an under-developed nation; it is a highly developed nation.

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YOU say that our government is inefficient.
YOU say that our laws are too old.
YOU say that the municipality does not pick up the garbage.
YOU say that the phones don't work, the railways are a joke. The airline is the worst in the world, mails never reach their destination.
YOU say that our country has been fed to the dogs and is the absolute pits.

YOU say, say and say. What do YOU do about it?

Take a person on his way to Singapore . Give him a name - 'YOURS'. Give him a face - 'YOURS'. YOU walk out of the airport and you are at your International best. In Singapore you don't throw cigarette butts on the roads or eat in the stores. YOU are as proud of their Underground links as they are.. You pay $5 (approx. Rs. 60) to drive through Orchard Road (equivalent of Mahim Causeway or Pedder Road) between 5 PM and 8 PM. YOU come back to the parking lot to punch your parking ticket if you have over stayed in a restaurant or a shopping mall irrespective of your status identity… In Singapore you don't say anything, DO YOU? YOU wouldn't dare to eat in public during Ramadan, in Dubai .. YOU would not dare to go out without your head covered in Jeddah.
YOU would not dare to buy an employee of the telephone exchange in London at 10 pounds (Rs.650) a month to, 'see to it that my STD and ISD calls are billed to someone else.'YOU would not dare to speed beyond 55 mph (88 km/h) in Washington and then tell the traffic cop, 'Jaanta hai main kaun hoon (Do you know who I am?). I am so and so's son. Take your two bucks and get lost.' YOU wouldn't chuck an empty coconut shell anywhere other than the garbage pail on the beaches in Australia and New Zealand ..
Why don't YOU spit Paan on the streets of Tokyo ? Why don't YOU use examination jockeys or buy fake certificates in Boston ??? We are still talking of the same YOU. YOU who can respect and conform to a foreign system in other countries but cannot in your own. You who will throw papers and cigarettes on the road the moment you touch Indian ground. If you can be an involved and appreciative citizen in an alien country, why cannot you be the same here in India ?

In America every dog owner has to clean up after his pet has done the job. Same in Japan ..
Will the Indian citizen do that here?' He's right. We go to the polls to choose a government and after that forfeit all responsibility.
We sit back wanting to be pampered and expect the government to do everything for us whilst our contribution is totally negative. We expect the government to clean up but we are not going to stop chucking garbage all over the place nor are we going to stop to pick a up a stray piece of paper and throw it in the bin. We expect the railways to provide clean bathrooms but we are not going to learn the proper use of bathrooms.
We want Indian Airlines and Air India to provide the best of food and toiletries but we are not going to stop pilfering at the least opportunity.
This applies even to the staff who is known not to pass on the service to the public.

When it comes to burning social issues like those related to women, dowry, girl child! and others, we make loud drawing room protestations and continue to do the reverse at home. Our excuse? 'It's the whole system which has to change, how will it matter if I alone forego my sons' rights to a dowry.' So who's going to change the system?
What does a system consist of? Very conveniently for us it consists of our neighbours, other households, other cities, other communities and the government. But definitely not me and YOU. When it comes to us actually making a positive contribution to the system we lock ourselves along with our families into a safe cocoon and look into the distance at countries far away and wait for a Mr.Clean to come along & work miracles for us with a majestic sweep of his hand or we leave the country and run away.
Like lazy cowards hounded by our fears we run to America to bask in their glory and praise their system. When New York becomes insecure we run to England . When England experiences unemployment, we take the next flight out to the Gulf. When the Gulf is war struck, we demand to be rescued and brought home by the Indian government. Everybody is out to abuse and rape the country. Nobody thinks of feeding the system. Our conscience is mortgaged to money.

Dear Indians, The article is highly thought inductive, calls for a great deal of introspection and pricks one's conscience too…. I am echoing J. F. Kennedy's words to his fellow Americans to relate to Indians…..

'ASK WHAT WE CAN DO FOR INDIA AND DO WHAT HAS TO BE DONE TO MAKE INDIA WHAT AMERICA AND OTHER WESTERN COUNTRIES ARE TODAY'

Lets do what India needs from us.

Forward this mail to each Indian for a change instead of sending Jokes or junk mails.

Thank you,

Dr. Abdul Kalam

How to show your friend your place in the relationship


How to show your friend your place in the relationship

Instructions
Step 1

Try socialise more with other people than your friend, it's not that you should break all ties or sumthing but just know what happens around you apart from your friendship.
Step 2

Start being secretive,, stop being an open book with your friend.
Step 3
Reveal secrets from time to time, making your friend realise that you also have a life apart from him.

Step 4

Really have a life apart from your friendhship with the "problem friend". It would make you feel better too.
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The basic thing is to make the "problem friend" realise that you can run smooth without him too. This would automatically pull your position up to the level , because friendship means both people on the same level of self-respect or dignity or whatever.
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DO NOT go overboard, this is a sensitive issue because you don't want to break the friendship but just attain the same position you had before the "problem friend" started to supress you.

source: e How

sometimes the "wrong" train can take us to a fantastic place


An aircraft flies past the moon over Anterselva, northwest Italy, January 23, 2010
Effort only fully releases its reward after a person refuses to quit." - Napoleon Hill

sometimes the "wrong" train can take us to a fantastic place - paulo coelho


Let there be no purpose in friendship save the deepening of the spirit. ~ Kahlil Gibran

A riot is the language of the unheard. ~ Martin Luther King, Jr.

I have taken more out of alcohol than alcohol has taken out of me. ~ Winston Churchill

"The race is not always to the swift, but that is where to look. " - Hugh E. Keough

Do you want to be happy?: 5 indicators that you are not


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Calcutta: the world in words
This is a great city? I shall always be glad to have seen it, for the same reason Papa was glad to have seen Lisbon – namely – 'that it will be unnecessary ever to see it again'."
Winston Churchill, Letter to his mother, 1896


Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Learn from it... tomorrow is a new day." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Kamalini Mukherji

Do you want to be happy?: 5 indicators that you are not

According to studies Conger lists, here are the red flags that you are not happy:

1. You watch too much TV. Research by the University of Chicago indicates that happier people watch 30% less television, regardless of age, marital status, income, or level of indication. Happier people spend, on average, six fewer hours in front of the TV and instead share that time with friends, volunteering, or in activities.

2. You do not have good relationships with other people. Studies consistently show that people who have a strong circle of friends are more likely to report that they are happy. Married people report more often that they are happier than single people. Unhappiness could impact how issues are handled within relationships and could also prevent people from initiating friendships or staying connected to other people.

3. Your stress level feels out of control. Research has noted the problem of increasing stress levels for people and particularly for women. One analysis of men and women showed that men may be happier because they give less time and energy to "unpleasant tasks" than women (there are those bills and to-dos again). Stress, some scientists say, can motivate us in the short term but wear down our happiness considerably over the long haul.

4. You are always seeking pleasure. Pleasure, Conger notes, is "momentary and fleeting." This is different from contentment, which entails appreciating where you are now in your life. If you simply seek pleasure, you will always be on a quest for more, always be coming from a place of lacking rather than abundance. This reminds me of the high of buying a new pair of shoes or having an expensive dinner -- a high that crashes when the bill arrives or as soon as the shoes get tossed into the closet. (You must read about this interesting survey of the happiness of people who experienced startling life-changing event.)

5. You do not get enough sleep. According to one study of more than 900 women, the number one indicator of unhappiness (aside from work stress) was a lack of sleep. While there are many factors that contribute to how many hours of sleep we get and how much of that is quality sleep, it has been shown that people who are sleep-deprived are more sensitive to the stress hormone cortisol. If you've been both sleep-deprived and well-rested, it probably isn't a big surprise that consistent, good sleep beefs up your physiological (and surely, emotional) ability to cope with stress. Plus, at this point in my 30s, I think every person my age I know would agree that sleep does make us happy.

Although these tips are not revolutionary -- somewhere in our brains don't we all know when we are basking in this kind of unhappy behavior? -- they are a good way to check in on how hard we are or are not working to be happier people. And Cristen Conger's full post is full of much more interesting information and is worth a read, no matter whether you label yourself as a pragmatist or optimist, happy or unhappy.

I know that it helps me to focus on what I do want, what is important for me to continue to grow my own happiness. And reading this also helped me to think about what I may be doing to prevent those wishes from becoming a reality and how I am standing in my own way.

With that, I think the pragmatic thing to do would be to add "sleep more" and "shop less" to my to-do list.


source: shine